Cheating and marrying multiple partners have been in existence since time immemorial, Even Solomon the wisest of men couldn’t resist it.
Thus he had 700 wives and 300 concubines.
We have in the past seen people go to an extent of committing murder when they catch their partners cheating but that should not happen anymore.
Women are majorly the culprits as they don’t like sharing.
Below are habits women should drop when they catch their men cheating.
Calling the other woman names
If your man is cheating, it’s high time for you to confront him rather than go looking for the other woman and fighting her.
After all mwanaume si kibeti ndio aibiwe. Always be the level-headed one coz like they say ‘Hasira hasara.’
Exposing the other woman on social media
There is no fury like that of a woman scorned.
We have in the past seen some women expose their husband’s mipango ya kando on social media pages, that habit inafaa ikome in 2021.
The reason being, your man is an adult and he knew what he was doing, furthermore if you are exposing your competitor how about exposing your husband as well?
Fighting over a man
Imagine mimi, Wambui, fighting over a man! Even if I caught him red-handed in bed with another woman I wouldn’t fight over him.
Fighting over a man just goes to prove how desperate one is.
Denying the kids a chance to know their father
I know that no woman wants to imagine their husband siring kids with another woman, but shit happens.
When it does the least you can do is either accept and move on or just move on without dragging the kids into your drama.
After all they were not there when your husband/bae was busy sweating on top of another woman.
Stalking your husbands side chick will only cause you grief.
So instead of stalking her just accept that katiba inakubalisha bibi wawili and move on. After all he will still come back to you.
If you can’t stand your bae marrying someone else, feel free to live. Life is too short to be unhappy.